Goodbye April, Hello May ‘26

Recovering from seasonal flu (a gift from the educational system), we spent the first half of the Easter holidays in bed. I usually manage to get the kids through it without antibiotics, but this time I had to give in and take them for a check-up. A few days of proper rest, and thankfully everyone was back on their feet.

Easter was a gentle reset. We shared a simple family meal and enjoyed a quick but joyful egg hunt in the garden. On Easter Monday, we joined a “scavenger egg hunt” at a nearby farm—an adventure that fully lived up to its name. I noticed some seasoned moms tackling the trail by bike, which felt like a glimpse into our future. We walked the full 5.5 km instead—laughing, sweating, navigating a few tears, and soaking in the early spring warmth.
Note to self: next year—bikes only.

Golf season is back, and our eldest has joined the junior group at the local club. He proudly carries his clubs to each lesson, eager to learn. Most sessions take place on the range or in the academy, and his excitement is contagious.

I’ve stayed consistent with my morning walks since mid-February. With longer days and warmer weather, we’re naturally shifting into more bike adventures too. This month: 11 morning walks and 10 days on the bike.

One highlight was a trip to Locarno with friends and their two kids. We made a very worthwhile stop at what might be the best ice cream spot in the region—huge scoops, no regrets. Most of our rides took us along the sandy river beaches, which are quickly becoming a favourite.

One day, I took all three kids out on the bike—one riding independently and two with me. It wasn’t exactly smooth (a few technical hiccups along the way), but we made it home safely, and I felt ridiculously accomplished.
Note to self: with a bit more practice, I’ll manage one child on the back and one asleep in the double Thule. Goal for this summer. Worst case—I build some much-needed muscle.

Our favourite adventure spot, Wonderwood, is officially open for the season. It runs on weekends and bank holidays, and we usually go for the “plus” ticket (return within 14 days for a small extra fee). As I’ve mentioned before, it truly offers something for everyone. (Linking our previous visit and latest High5 sensory check-in here.)

With warmer weather, birthday parties in Ticino have moved outdoors again. This month included a beautiful double birthday celebration in nature, up on Monte Verità. It felt just as much like a parents’ gathering as a kids’ party—children roaming freely through the woods, while we chatted nearby. As usual, I found myself stationed at the playground with my two youngest, catching toddlers mid-tumble alongside a few wonderful moms.

May in Planning

  • Bank holidays
  • Two family birthdays
  • Mother’s Day
  • Trip to Hungary
  • School trips and open days

1000 Hours Outside Challenge

We passed the 300-hour mark in April, spending over 110 hours outdoors together. As the days stretch longer, it becomes easier to say yes to going outside—even when it feels inconvenient.

In just over a month, school will be out. And with it, a little more freedom to shape our days around fresh air, movement, and time together.

Even in the messy weeks—the sick days, the logistical chaos, the moments of doubt—getting outside continues to be the one thing that grounds us. Not perfectly, but consistently.

High5 from Losone Beach, Ticino, Switzerland

River Bank in Losone

Losone Beach can get very crowded on sunny days and bank holidays. We often visit in all sorts of weather conditions. It has a charm to entertain one, no matter the weather.

Today we arrived on two wheels and a very soar backside. The path we took was lumpy bumpy, gravel and full of bigger stones.

When out and about we like to play ‘High Five’ game while we catch our breath and rest our legs.

River Bank in Losone


5 – Five things we SEE with our eyes

  • Snowy mountains
  • Rushing river Maggia
  • Swaying trees in the wind
  • Hungry ducks approaching thinking we are throwing bread but instead we were just playing with rocks
  • Kids building sand castles between the stones

4 – Four things we FEEL/TOUCH

  • Freezing water up until our ankles
  • Shiny seaglass
  • Warm breeze on our skin
  • Smooth sand our feet

3 – Three things we can HEAR

  • Cars passing by on the road above the other side of Maggia
  • Warm wind swirls around
  • Skidding rock on the wavy river


2 – Two things you can SMELL

  • Smoke from a nearby fire
  • Wet sand on our body

1 – One thing we can TASTE

  • Fresh air, we can bit into freedom

Indeed we love this game so much, I decided to dedicate a category to such posts. I hope that once the kids are more tech savvy, they may like to take pictures of the high fives they come up with. For now we just aim to notice and add an adjective to the thing we highlight.

Do you play a similar game when the kids are bored or not feeling confident to join other kids on the playground? I am all ears, share in the comments please.

High5 from Meriggio Playground, Losone, Ticino, Switzerland

Meriggio is a popular chilling spot in Losone. It is a huge open space with plenty to offer.

We visit this place regularly with friends and family. Today we biked there with my two older kids. One on his bike, while my daughter behind me on the kiddo seat. It takes about thirty minutes to reach this park from home.

When out and about we like to play ‘High Five’ game while we catch our breath and rest our legs.


5 – Five things we SEE with our eyes

  • Sun behind the clouds
  • Clouds in front of the sun,
  • Feet in the sky,
  • Bark mulch
  • children playing

4 – Four things we FEEL/TOUCH

  • Breeze on the skin while rocking back and fourth on the swing
  • The rope swing on our palms
  • Wooden mulch under our feet
  • Our hair flying while swinging

3 – Three things we can HEAR

  • Music from the nearby bar
  • Distant chatter from all directions
  • Dogs barking


2 – Two things you can SMELL

  • Ready meals from the bar
  • Wooden mulch on the ground

1 – One thing we can TASTE

  • Water from fountain

Indeed we love this game so much, I decided to dedicate a category to such posts. I hope that once the kids are more tech savvy, they may like to take pictures of the high fives they come up with. For now we just aim to notice and add an adjective to the thing we highlight.

Do you play a similar game when the kids are bored or not feeling confident to join other kids on the playground? I am all ears, share in the comments please.

High5 from Wonderwood, Lake Maggiore, Italy

Father and daughter relaxing in the meadow.

We are back at our favourite climbing place, Wonderwood – Lake Maggiore in Italy.

View of Wonderwood, Lake Maggiore, Italy

Whenever the weather is nice this place transforms into one of those places where everyone can find something to do, from age 0 to 115. This time of the year, it is still a bit chilly and the toddler pool was not filled with water.

I though this time we could review this place from three different age perspective.


5 – Five things we SEE with our eyes

7 years old

  • Rope Courses
  • Zip Line
  • Expedition Center
  • Souvenir Shop
  • Ice Cream Station

3 years old

  • Sand Pit
  • Play Ground
  • Butterfly Course
  • Squirrel Coaster
  • Green Swing

2 years old

  • Wooden Train Station
  • Ladybug Swing
  • Toad spotting in the Pond
  • Green Meadows
  • Digger Station

4 – Four things we FEEL/TOUCH

7 years old

  • Helmet on the head
  • Climbing safety belt
  • Heartbeat in ear – adrenalin
  • Wooden, metal, net frames

3 years old

  • Dry sand and toys
  • Wooden climbing frame
  • Wooden ball on Squirrel Run
  • Juicy dandelions

2 years old

  • Wooden Train Station
  • Slimy toads
  • Velvety violets
  • Cold ice cream

3 – Three things we can HEAR

7 years old

  • Birds chirping on the trees
  • Climbers cheering on zip line
  • Carabiners clicking

3 years old

  • Clips clamping
  • Parents cheering
  • Helmet knocking on wood

2 years old

  • Toads splashing in the water
  • Cyclists / Bikes passing by
  • Dogs barking


2 – Two things you can SMELL

  • Mouth watering food smell from the grotto at lunch time.
  • Fresh mountain air

1 – One thing we can TASTE

  • Sweet ice cream melting in the mouth after an exhausting climb.

Should you want to know more about this place, check out my post from last year or our video on youtube.

Indeed we love this game so much, I decided to dedicate a category to these posts. I hope that once the kids are more tech savvy, they may like to take pictures of the high fives they come up with. For now we just aim to notice and add an adjective to the thing we highlight.

Do you play similar games when the kids are bored or not feeling confident to join other kids on the playground? I am all ears, share in the comments please.

Goodbye March – Hello April 2026

Night Lit Street with Moonshine from Behind the Mountain

From winter to summer, we’ve got blown over with a horrible wind lasting for a week. Opened and closed the month with sickness and rough coughing.

Beginning of March

Riding the motivation wave from last month, I continued waking up super early to go for an hour walk before sunrise. Overall I managed to get out 19 times in 31 days. I am now focusing on increasing the number of days I take 20’000 plus steps.

AgriNido

AgriNido is a parent-child morning on a farm led by a childcare professional. We basically met up with a bunch of parents and their tiny human aged 1 to 4 years-old. We followed our guide around, who introduced the kids to all the animals on the farm.

Once we collected some fresh grass, we fed the bunnies, while the other half of the group fetched some water for the tiny bunnies. Then we visited the goats and played on their playground after topping up their hay stack. Next we cleaned the donkeys and last but not least we cleaned up the stable of the alpacas before feeding them some carrot and apple slices. After the tour the smaller visitors were ready for their well-deserved nap time in the car on the way home.

It was a truly hands on experience both for the kids and for their caretakers. I wish this type of nursery would take place on a weekly basis in our area. I would have signed up for a day a week as opposed to one more day in an indoor setting. But I am told it takes a lot of permits to operate such a setting in our region.

Safari Park

March 19 is a bank holiday in Ticino. It is also Father’s Day. As my husband was working that day, I packed the car and set off to visit the Safari Park at Pombia, Northern Italy. The park – for our surprise – was much more than a Safari Park.

After a quick lunch we set off to visit the reptiles in the Rettilario. With more than 400 animals of 100+ species, the kids were eagerly looking through each terrarium to spot the well hidden creatures.

Next up, we hopped on one of those cool Dotto Trains to feed the animals at the Safari Park. Before we took off, they handed out buckets of carrots to everyone so we could toss them to the animals through the train windows. The giraffes totally knew it was snack time when they spotted the train coming! With their chests at eye level, they had to lean down to grab the carrots we held out. My youngest was totally amazed by how long the giraffes’ tongues were and ended up finishing the ride in grandma’s lap, watching those big guys from a comfy distance. Our daughter and eldest had a blast feeding the animals, even though they often dropped the food on the ground instead of handing it to them.

We saw these animals during the 45 minutes drive:

  • Giraffes
  • Zebras
  • Ostrich
  • Buffalo
  • Antilopes
  • Rhinos
  • Elephants
  • Hippos
  • Lions
  • Tigers
  • Pelican
  • Camels

After the Safari ride we had to visit the amusement park before heading home. Although we were still in the Safari Park, the fun rides had to be paid separately. As that Thursday was not a bank holiday in Italy, the park was almost exclusively ours 🙂 One big bonus for families with neurodivergent kids. One of the employee told us that during the holiday season they get around 4-5000 visitors per day. That Thursday we visited they had about 300 visitors. It was a very chill day for them.

Leolandia

For our father’s day trip we opted in to see what Leolandia has to offer. It was a gloomy day with spurs of sunshine here and there.

It was a mix of emotions throughout the day. I would definitely advise against visiting with a neurodivergent child. We faced a lot of minor challenges, that did not went down well with our daughter. I am talking about simple things, like you are not able to choose the colour of the ride you need to sit on when it’s your turn finally. All the rushing to take your spot and the sudden ending of it, was a lot to take in.

We also had lots of fun feeding the farm animals and meeting Bluey and Bingo. Lunch was surprisingly great. Only saying because we are so used to eating crappy food when visiting such parks. But not this time, there are many options to choose from.

Of course at the end everyone must leave through the souvenir shop. Ensuring that people not only go home with frate memories but also with a souvenir in hand.

April in Planning

  • Easter Time in Ticino
  • Family visiting from Italy and Poland
  • Longer Days – more time to spend outdoors
  • Our Bikes needs a face lift

1000 Hours Outside Challenge

It’s heartwarming to see that we managed to spend 85 hours outside, even if it felt like a slower month overall. We faced some challenges with illness at both the beginning and end of the month, which made our outdoor adventures more limited. Nonetheless, during the two and a half weeks we felt well, we truly embraced the time we had, planning experiences that allowed us to enjoy full days together in nature.

Goodbye February – Hello March 2026

Snowy mountain peaks under a pastel dawn sky with distant village lights.

Snow, hail, rain, storm, breeze, clouds, sunshine and anything in between. Temperatures were varying between -6 to +17 degrees Celsius (with the feeling of 25 in the sun). The first flowers had appeared in the garden, although the ground was still asleep.

Beginning of Feb

Spring cleaning at home turned into room swaps. We turned our bedroom into the kids room and created a cosy sleeping room. Decorated the walls with posters and set up a book shelf in the corner. There is plenty of space in the middle for our pikler frames. Our new bedroom feels more spacious with our furniture than we originally thought. There is even space for my work station in there. Away from the noise of the TV in the living room.

Our little ones tried a new activity in Locarno. The trial day of the Ball Session was fun. We have to decide whether to spend our Saturday mornings in a gym, now that basically ‘summer’ is here.

We tried one of the viral Insta recipes, and it quickly became our go-to dinner meal. Baked parmesan onion crisp. Here are some of our raw photos, which don’t do it much justice. I’ve linked one of the videos in case you want to try it yourself. This dish is a delicious alternative to bread, as you can fill it with anything you like for a sandwich. You can roll it up or simply layer it with your choice of filling in between.

Just before the holidays, the kids dressed up in all sorts of costumes to celebrate Carnevale in the school. For merenda I made a light fruit snack and served it on a crocodile.

Vacanza di Carnevale

Ski break in other places. A whole week off school. We packed the car and drove to Hungary. Checked in to our hotel just before dinner. Not bad for a 1000 km plus trip. Key is to leave early and pack the night before.

We spent nearly the entirety of the week within the cozy confines of the hotel, seeking refuge from the stormy weather outside. Each day we ventured out briefly to tackle some administrative errands in town. Regardless of our short errands, we relished in the abundance of delightful activities that AquaWorld had to offer.

Unfortunately on this trip we couldn’t explore in person the city, but we cannot wait to return very soon.

By the end of the month

Our two little ones start to switch from parallel play to cooperative one. It is so nice to see them playing together more and more.

As the days light gets longer, the winter blues is lifting and the energy returns in us and everything around. I decided it is time to get fit again. Now that my youngest is two, I have slight memory of what it felt like owning my body again. As the kids returned to school, I decided to carve out an hour of my day to myself. I decided to wake up early every morning and go for a walk / jog. Those 60 minutes are life saving. I actually have some thoughts of my own now. I listen to the river cascading along the rocks next to me and the birds singing on the trees as it gets lighter. It is liberating both to the soul and to the body.

As the days are warmer and nobody is ill, we also spend more time outdoors. Enjoying the sunshine, roller skating, tree climbing, cycling, and skateboarding.

1000 Hours Outside Challenge

This month, we logged 60 hours outdoors, bringing our total to 116 hours for the year. While this may not seem like a significant amount for just two months, I’m not concerned, as I know that the first couple of months are typically our slowest, with the fewest opportunities to get outside. Our main season spans from March to November. I’m quite confident that we’re already surpassing last year’s hours, and that’s what truly matters to me. Improving in what we do is essential for our growth—never compare your progress to anyone else’s pace.

Celebrations

Today I felt at ease. I said no to something very important to be able to focus on celebrating the second birthday of my son properly.

It meant that I could keep my sanity all day and my focus on the celebrations. As it should be. But it wasn’t like me before, it’s my new me. In the past I would had squeezed in all the things came in my way, before prioritising myself and family.

Today I felt good with the progress at home and preparation. It’s far form perfect, but it’s right for the current season of our lives.

The Birthday Boy

After a long nap, our little boy was his happy self again. He went on exploring all the new ‘tidy’ layout, that he found at home 😃 It doesn’t happen often.

I could tell that he fully understands that all the fuss around the house and kitchen is for his celebration.

Grannies were invited for dinner at six in the evening. Allowing some quite after school time for the eldest and a short nap 💤 time for our daughter.

Dinner

Fondue 🫕 with steamed potatoes, fondue bread, some meat and pickles. The latest is my son’s absolute favourite. He can eat half a can for one meal.

Grandma prepared a masterpiece birthday cake. It was not only stunning to look at but delicious 😋 as well.

Birthday cake

Presents and glowing balloons 🎈 made everyone happy for the rest of the evening.

My Birthday Wishes

To my lovely youngest boy: your smile warms my heart immediately! I wish you keep your gorgeous smile forever and ever. Stay healthy and strong always. I love you to the moon and back.

In conclusion

And with that we close a huge era in our lives. No more babies. We take a short break before preparing for grand babies to come 🤗 But until then, look out for more adventures.

To: Our Dear Daughter

Little girl is watching the water going down the drain in the kids pool.

To my dear daughter with infinite love and respect from your Mother.

Today we (your parents) got some news about your gorgeous self. We were told your mind works in a special unique way. It may take us some time to catch up with you and join you in your very special world. We will learn ways to connect and you will learn to express yourself in many ways soon.

With anticipation we are looking forward to seeing you grow and develop. The highs are going to get higher with time and the lows may get lower. But as long as we grow together as a family in our community, it’s all going to be just fine.

Together we can tackle everything you need us to face together.

We love you all – your personal cheerleading team.

Power of quotes

Today my world has turned around! Have you ever felt that something just had to be heard / read / seen at the right time, at the right place?

Quote

The quote that struck a spark in me this time, was found while mindlessly scrolling through my insta feed. It is something super simple but very powerful. It doesn’t even matter what image, music, and captions accompanied the meme. The message that it holds is important and it sounds like this.

A says: We only live once. B’s response: WRONG! We only die once. We live every day!

Community

What a change in perspectives! Me being a huge procrastinator, I need to live every day! Get accountable and do something every day for me, my husband, my kids, my environment.

I cannot wait to integrate into this new community. Making friends is not easy, but it’s definitely worth the effort. It’s important for me to help my family building a network of friends / people around us in our new home, to grow together.

Fitness v. Fit-less

Another way this quote influences me is to get in shape. I am a year postpartum today. I feel weak but motivated. Building a stamina would mean more playtime with my kids. I would like to fully live every day with them. At this point I am sleep deprived, my hormone level is imbalanced, and I go through waves of energy tides few times a day.

New habit

Today my eldest found joy in using a toy that he got about two years ago (way too early to his age back then). It is perfect now. It works like a slide-projector, if you remember those. You must choose a slide / image and place it inside an apparatus that will reflect it onto a canvas.

We then draw the image on the canvas and then coloured it in. After completing two of these arts with my son, he carried on alone while listening to some nature documentary on the TV.

Before I knew it, he brought his notebook with 7 images drawn and coloured in. He then explained that each image is part of his weekly calendar that will commence tomorrow. He asked his dad how to write the word DAY. Then wrote day 1, day 2, etc., next to each image.

I suggested we turn this into a journal. He preps 7 days worth of image. Then during the week we can write ‘HIGH, LOW, BUFFALO’ of the day around the image. But why stop there? We can add the date, name of the day in all the languages we speak at home. Furthermore the weather, and any ad hoc events worth looking back on. My son is interested in learning to write. He often asks us to spell a word for him, so he can write it down. The opportunities are endless.

Let’s make every day to remember for.

Emergency Preparedness: Finding Shelter in Switzerland

Sirens are wailing, you follow the instructions from the authorities. It may instructs the population to seek shelter as soon as possible. Should you live in a house that doesn’t have private bunker, where do you go?

It is a good idea to prepare your family for emergencies. The Swiss civil protection system ensures that all residents have access to shelter space across the country. Therefore this post is dedicated for anyone interested in finding out where to seek shelter in their areas.

1 – Contact Your Local Authorities

  • Municipal Office: Gemeinde (DE) / Commune (FR) / Comune (IT)
    This should be your first point of contact. The local municipality office will provide you with the necessary information on what to do and where to go in case of emergency.
  • Civil Protection Office: Protezione Civile (IT)
    They can provide detailed guidance on shelter locations and emergency protocols. There are over 370,000 shelters across Switzerland.

2 – Consult the Official Shelter Directory

  • In 2011 the law to incorporate bunkers in newly built houses have changed. It is no longer a requirement. However, if the new building has no private shelter, the owner is required to pay a one off fee of 1400 fr. This fee is spent on the expansion or renovation of the public shelters nearby.
  • There is a comprehensive directory of public shelters. However, in case of emergency the authorities will inform each resident on the dedicated location. This cannot be planned in advanced. As people are relocating, and the population is ever changing, the detailed emergency plan is prepared as and when necessary.
  • The Swiss shelter industry is world-wide-known. The in depth specialised knowledge and components are exported to various part of the world.
  • The shelters come in all sort of sizes. It is planned to allow one square meter space per person. Shelters are designed for single use, for a group of seven, or even larger 25 / 50 people. They are equipped with beds and a dry toilet. They have ventilation system and an armored door.

3 – Use the Alertswiss Platform

  • Website and App notification (source: FAQ on Alertswiss website)
    • Description of the incident and existing danger
    • What area is affected Instructions or recommendations on what to do or what measures the authorities have taken
    • Additional sources of information, for example hotlines, websites or contact points
    • Name of the competent authority or authority responsible for sending the alert
  • Types of notifications: There are three different levels of notification: alerts, warnings and information. An alert is the highest level of notification; information, the lowest.
    • Alert: used when the authorities inform you of an immediate danger and issue mandatory instructions on what to do.
    • Warning: reports a possible danger or an event for which the authorities provide non-binding recommendations.
    • Information: reports on an event that is relevant to the protection of the population, but does not present imminent danger.

4 – Community Resources

  • Some community centers or public buildings are designed as emergency shelters.
  • Also, look out for notice boards and signs.

5 – Stay informed

  • Especially as an expat, it is essential to integrate to the local community. When settling down in a new village, town or city, there are compulsory steps to follow to register. This process opens many doors to newcomers.
  • Don’t be afraid to ask questions and discover local groups that can help your integration process to be a smooth.

By taking these steps, you can ensure that your family is well-prepared and knows exactly where to go in the event of emergency. It is good to have a family emergency plan in place known by all family members.